Archive for July, 2009

3 Facts About Pheromones

Friday, July 31st, 2009

There has been a lot of talk over the last few years about the power of pheromones and how we should all be buying them out of a bottle from a perfume shop if we want to attract the opposite sex.However, 90% of the info being banded about is not true and has instead been made up by the people trying to sell them. If you’re interested in getting the maximum from your pheromones army, these clear tips should help.

Only your own work. You cannot buy a bottle of either someone else’s pheromone parfum or synthetic ones and expect them to work. As everyone has a different body and different emotions, their pheromone production is unique. Covering yourself in the pheromones of another person will case a mismatch and it won’t work. Further to this your own pheromones will mix with the fake and create a very unattractive pheromones product

pheromones are not sweat. Believe it or not your pheromone peak is not reached when you’ve just been exercising and your clothes are sweat soaked. Sweat glands do produce a number of the bodies pheromones but they are certainly very different bodily production.  Lots of people mistake the smell of sweat for pheromones but in fact this is the odor from bacteria breaking down the sweat, pheromones are scentless.


Deodorants mask pheromones
.  A problem that a lot of people have is that they want to use their pheromones to attract others but don’t want to sweat or smell so cover their bodies in deodorant and perfume fragrances. When the skin has just been cleaned, this is when it produces the most pheromones. So the best advice is wait around 20mins after washing before applying any deodorant so that enough can be excreted. Also, try not to apply a strong or overpowering deodorant or perfume that masks your natural pheromone production

Dealing With The Death Of Your Boyfriend

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

Are you trying to cope with the death of your boyfriend or do you know someone who is? Well this is probably the hardest situation to be faced with. It takes a lot of self encouragement and some encouragement words from someone who cares.

There are certain things feeling that you go through when trying to heal or when dealing with the death of a loved one. Allow me to go through a few of these – hopefully you will realise that you are not alone and you are on your way to healing.

Disbelief

One of the first emotions to hit soon after receiving bad news is disbelief. It is even harder when you have just had a conversation or just seen your boyfriend. This initial feeling may last for a couple of hours and sometimes days. In most occasions it lasts up to the day of the funeral.

Shock

Seeing or hearing news about the death can be quite shocking. In most cases this happens at the funeral after reality strikes. This hits you as soon as you realise that your boyfriend is actually gone – dead. Compared to the other emotions, it is easy to get through this one.

Anger

You may be angry at the world, at people who were there when this happened or at yourself. If you do not properly manage anger, it can get really destructive. It is important to be careful about what you say and think during this time. Look into the internet for some daily words of encouragement to get you through the day when you feel like venting.

Pain

Pain is tormenting and longer lasting. It required you to constantly hear some words of encouragement. Pain is deadly. It feels like a thorn that mercilessly prickles the heart beyond what human nature can bare. Believe me it goes away. I don’t mean to say you forget what happened but you simply are able to live without feeling bad all the time.

Pain comes with helplessness and sometimes regret. You may feel nothing will ever take away the pain or regret not telling your boyfriend certain things.

You Want Your Ex Back, Now What?

Thursday, July 30th, 2009

I understand you really want your ex back, and agree that love is an important thing in life and that great happiness would come if they were back in your life. If you feel as if you want your ex back, it may be wise for you to consider devising a game plan before you take any action without thinking. There are multiple reasons for a relationship to collapse, however there are many ways to fix it if you want your ex back.

There are some suggestions of what I can do if I really want my ex back and think that we are right for each other.
Here are five tips for when you have that feeling you are seeing signs your ex wants you back.

You need to clear your energy from other people and influences. I need to clear my calendar so I have time for my ex rather than hanging out with my other friends because I am serious about rekindling things with him.

You are going to have to be willing to maintain your dignity, I should not be selling my soul just because I want someone back. I understand you want your ex back, but take care to keep your dignity and make certain to make good decisions in rekindling your lost passion.

People want to be appreciated, so make sure you are willing to show your ex that you care. You and the person in your former relationship should appreciate each other. If you do not appreciate each other, then no amount of wanting your ex back is ever going to turn that want into a reality.

To get back your ex, you might want to consider experiencing a change in scenery. To get back together with your ex, stop tracing the same break up. If you want your ex back you should try things you never tried before.  If you create exciting encounters and/or develop creative and fun activities you are back on track to building a great relationship.

If wanting your ex back is such a fundamental emotion as you have outlined you are going to need to create a feeling of shared destiny together. With what is essentially a shared sense of destiny, because life is something that we are responsible for creating, you might be able to get your ex back. The couples that tend to work the best are those that take their fate into their very own hands. Act immediately if you really want to get back together with an ex.