Posts Tagged ‘Conflict’

What I Learned About Drug Abuse and Alcoholism in High School, the Inspiration and Motivation For My Augmented Self Esteem and Self Worth, and My Enhanced Friendships and Relationships

Friday, May 7th, 2010

When I was a sophomore in high school, I took a substance abuse class. At that age, I did not comprehend that alcohol abuse actually was a sub classification of drug abuse. While taking this class and learning more about drug and alcohol abuse and above all about alcohol side effects, I read a lot about Alcoholic Anonymous, their meetings, how their programs have twelve steps, and how successful the Alcoholics Anonymous recovery program has been for people throughout the world. I also learned a lot about alcohol treatment and the different alcohol rehab clinics that are commonly available to people who engage in abusive drinking.

Harmful Consequences That are Correlated With Alcohol Dependency and Alcohol Abuse

Some of the damaging outcomes linked to alcoholism and alcohol abuse that I learned about in this class undeniably startled me. The ruined lives and numerous difficulties experienced by most alcohol addicted people made me feel like I never wanted to drink alcohol when I became old enough. That is, I did not want to face the damage and ruination that alcohol dependent individuals almost always encounter.

Ponder upon this for a moment. What fifteen-year-old individual wants to face premature death due to his or her drinking behavior? What young person wants to become so out-of-control regarding his or her drinking that ingesting alcohol becomes the object of one’s life? What teenager wants to go to one of the local alcoholic rehabilitation centers to deal with alcohol-related problems before he or she becomes an adult?

What youth wants to deal with alcohol withdrawals when he or she tries to quit drinking? Why would an individual engage in drinking to such an extent that it would cause serious issues in every area of his or her life? Drinking later in life after an individual has a career, a family, and develops personal responsibilities makes sense. But why would a teenager want to sacrifice his or her education, employment, finances, and relationships for a life that revolves around hazardous drinking?

These issues were so meaningful that I talked about some of them in class during the school year. What was utterly amazing to me was the number of students who simply didn’t care about the dangerous consequences of irresponsible drinking that I discussed. It was almost as if they couldn’t be bothered with the facts and how these effects can destroy their lives. For the first time in my life I started to understand a saying that my grandfather used to emphasize throughout my youth: you can lead a horse to water but you can’t force it to drink.

It’s Beneficial, Important, and Liberating to Remove Yourself From the Destructive and Unhealthy Outcomes of Drug and Alcohol Abuse

And even at my young age, I also began to realize how invigorating, important, and beneficial it is in life to keep yourself from the debilitating and unhealthy consequences of drug and alcohol abuse. Not surprisingly, comprehending this not only led to more than a few conflicts and problems in school but also resulted in enhanced relationships and friendships.

Get Your Ex Back – There’s A Simple Way To Do It

Monday, November 30th, 2009

I need to get my ex back.
During our short lives, that is something we will all (well nearly all) say.
Sadly a lot of us won’t even get close to getting our ex back.

We usually do the exact opposite of what we should do.
Making stupid moves in the hope that our ex will take pity and take us back.
This rarely ever happens though.

We beg, we plead, we even stalk them!
Moves like these almost never work.
You risk killing any chance you have left.

The smart mover here is to keep well away for a while and have a bit of time to yourself.
Yes that sounds ridiculous but trust me it works.
It gives you a chance to get your head together & it gives your ex a chance to miss you a little bit.

Once you are under control, emotionally, you can plan the next step.
What is the next phase you might ask?
Well, this is where you actually get your ex back.

I don’t suppose you took classes on how to get your ex back? Didn’t think so.
Which leaves us looking for a system or plan that we can use.
We can use the knowledge of people who have previously been in our shoes.

There are boat loads of products out there that claim to have you back together in double quick time.
Hard to imagine but there you go. Utterly true.
I’m glad it’s all out there because I would still be single if it weren’t.

For the cost of a cheap date you can get yourself a ready made plan.
A blueprint to getting your ex back.
Even stranger, the most popular plan boasts success with over 12,000 people and counting.

It’s decision time now.
Will you simply do nothing and carry on being utterly broken?
Do you try to come up with your own plan to win your ex back?

Or do you go with the proven method & get your ex back in the quickest time you can?
I know exactly what I would be doing.
I actually got a system and it worked in less than eight weeks for me.

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Making Up Without Endless Apologies

Monday, August 24th, 2009

One of the mistakes many people make when trying to get their ex back is to say I’m sorry a thousand times.  There is nothing wrong with a good apology in many cases.  But saying I’m sorry over and over can actually cause your ex to move further away from you.  Learn more about Get Ex Back here.

Instead of apologizing endlessly, there are a few things to do that will be much more effective.  Starting with, don’t say I’m sorry if you did nothing wrong.  If your ex just isn’t that into you any more, maybe you did nothing wrong.  Apologizing can make you sound pathetic.

Of course, if you did something wrong that needs an apology, that’s a great place to start.  You have to understand what you did wrong and be ready to apologize, just don’t start with an apology – yet.

Before you ever get around to apologizing, do a few powerful things first.  To begin with, let’s say you committed adultery.  You cheated on your ex.  They kicked you out and are feeling a lot of betrayal and anger.  You can learn more about getting my ex back specfics here.

Before you say you’re sorry a million times, do these smart steps first!  Own up to what you did.  Admit it.  Your ex needs to know at a basic emotional level that you know what you did was wrong.  So admit it.  Don’t justify or try to explain your actions.

Next, get them to vent.  Before you ever say I’m sorry, get your ex to tell you how they feel about what you did.  Let them get their bad feelings off their chest.  If they want to yell at you or cry or attack you, you take it.  You don’t argue or defend yourself.  You just let them vent.  Venting releases their negative feelings some.

If you can do both of those things, admit what you did wrong and get them to vent, you are in great shape. Now, when you apologize, they can hear you.  Now you’re I’m sorry has a chance of being heard.  And being accepted.

So if your ex deserves an I’m sorry, make it a powerful one.  And do that by letting your ex vent and letting your ex hear you own up to what you did wrong.  That way, you may be able to get your ex back in hours or a few days rather than waiting months hoping they’ll cool down and forgive you.  Go here for a free course on How To Get Love Relationship Advice.