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I want to wipe the slate clean with my former spouse, but how can I let it go? Is marriage relationship coaching what I need?

Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

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A woman named Helen from Ohio came to me and asked about letting herself forgive her Ex so she could get past the pain with her life. She really desires to attract a soul mate that will not only last a long time, but one that will also grow in intimacy. Many people understand that question. They can understand the hurt they’re holding on to from a past failed relationship. Law of attraction coaching for your relationship, whether it ended years ago or is a current relationship can help. A few law of attraction coaching sessions specific to your marriage issues can be hugely helpful.

Before you read any further, you need to pat yourself on the back for actually DESIRING to forgive your ex. That’s huge. If you will set your intention to give away a tiny bit each day, within a very short time you’ll see your energy lift and dissapear. It’s absolutely necessary to release even for those who don’t think there’s anything left to release. Forgiveness is a process and one that frees YOU the most. Another wonderful exercise is to find some things that you love about your previous love. They don’t have to be related to the relationship. Perhaps you liked the way he fixed things. Or you liked what a tightly knit group of budd‌ies he has. Maybe you loved his smile. It can be whatever you want. The point is to begin to look for aspects that you appreciated. You do this for no other reason than to shift your energy about him. You lighten up yourself.

When you let go of previous guilt you create space. Space to receive more of what’s wanted. And for all of us, what’s wanted is to receive more love. I teach all about letting go, clearing out and making space both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.

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Getting good relationship advice

Wednesday, September 23rd, 2009

One of the most difficult things in life is a breakup.The event of a break up is such a difficult time.It could of been a break up that has been in the works for awhile.Where fighting was going on for a long time.Or it could be something sudden, that comes without warning.  That sometimes is the tough one to take.

They are both difficult situations.  But when it does happen it leaves a person wanting to know how to get ex back.That only happens if there is someone who does want the relationship fixed.If that was what happened, it really makes the breakup that much more difficult. 

So when a guy is looking for how to get ex girlfriend back where can they turn.Where if you go searching on the internet you will find a lot of advice.  But who can you trust.How are you able to determine what will work?Unfortunately it is something you can’t be too sure about.  Sure there may be testimonials but that is all you can go by.

When you experience an ending of a relationship, you just have to go and see if it can work.What you will see is that there are a lot of books to choose from.  Books that talk about how to get ex boyfriend back, or your ex girlfriend back.The thing that works well about books is that you can find some good reviews.Reviews are helpful because you can go over it and get a feel for it.You can start to get a feel on how it works.  You can see if it could work for you.But when you come down to it, it will be something you have to see for yourself.

So after it all when you want to get relationship advice it will be tough.  There are many places to get it.When you do try an advice book out this allows you to see if it is something than can work. If it does work, wonderful.If it turns out not to be effective, you can then turn to a counselor.That way you can see if it works first and save some money instead of first starting out with a counselor.

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Are You In a Rebound Relationship?

Monday, August 31st, 2009

There are a lot of things that lovers go through when they had a loving relationship breakup for whatever reason. Some people like to be left alone for sometime to reflect on the loss, but some other people go in the opposite direction. They are the ones that seek comfort in someone else as soon as they can. That is their way of healing, and it does not mean that they did not care about or are not morning the loss of the last relationship. When you are dating someone after a breakup, either yours or theirs, you want to know if you are in a rebound relationship or not.

You may think of a rebound relationship as one that starts after a long term one fails. That is mostly true, but not all of them are going to end abruptly. However, many of them do. What happens is that someone goes for the opposite of the person they were just with in the hopes that this will help them forget and heal faster. It never works, but that is usually what they are attempting to do. If they are not the ones that wanted to end the relationship, they may go into a rebound relationship with someone who remind them of the person they just lost.

Because of this, rebound relationships are often based on things that do not make for a long term relationship. If you jump into the arms of another to feel safe and loved, even though you have not mourned the one you just ended, you are not seeing that person for who they really are. Large problems and other issues can occur in such a rebound relationship. One of the most obvious is that they usually end up talking forever about the relationship that just came to an end, and the other person is left to feel that they are not over that other person. If that happens, they are exactly right and the relationship ends.

If you think that you are in a rebound relationship with someone, ask yourself a few questions. Have you jumped to fast? If you are trying to get really close to the other really quickly, you could be setting yourself up to get hurt. Eventually, they are going to get spooked. If someone is always talking about the ex, you should realize that this could go on for a long time. You have to decide if you can pull back a little and be more of a friend until the other person has healed. If not, you are going to get your heartbroken. Make your pick accordingly.

Those that have jumped from one relationship to another, and have landed in the rebound relationship have to think about what they are doing. They should make sure they are honest about just getting out of something and not being over it. That can let someone else conclude if they are really up for a relationship that may not end well. There is a time when the feelings of others have to be more important then the need to find shelter in someone you know you are going to hurt.

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